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Tuesday, November 25, 2008

to put a smile on your face

Al mio amore



to be one that can make people laugh, make people feel happy is easy for me. in fact i have been doing that all my life. i bring joy and laughter. i give them a sense of calmness and understanding. but what they do not see is that behind every comedian, lies a tale full of tragedies.





to begin with, its not so hard to make people smile and fall in love with you. all you have to do is to create a trust person u want smiling. by doing so, you sort of have this mutual understanding and trust of the person. only with trust that a person can open up their hard wall of defence and melt like ice cream in your hands.





from there, we could proceed on to the next level which is the bait. every fish knows what is a bait. but they cant seem to resist to it. so the bait in this case would be giving up your ear for them to talk everything out. let them share what they feel, what are their problems. even though u sort of know the gist of the problem, act as if u have no clue to it. always behave humbly, saying you are not good at giving advices and all when you know exactly what to do. always prompt the person to tell more. one may use their creative ideas for this. but usually for girls, all they need is attention. give them your full attention. you'll see what i mean.





the next step would be reeling in. that's when u start showing interest in their problem. this however may lead to some disappointment. that is why i advice, never to put your feelings on the line till the last part of the whole process. when you reel in, this is when its time you look out for possible loopholes to the heart.using these loop holes, one can sort of gather more things to know about the person. especially so when the person is vulnerable.


OK, i think i have been crapping a lot. so i guess till here then, if u want to know more about what i have been saying above, contact me through my MSN

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posted by Rid at 11:30 PM

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